personnalityisme

How to be a "Girly girl" :

Substitute clumsiness and jerky movements with graceful and fluid actions. You'll feel like a fake if you just clump along while walking. True "girly girls" sort of look like they're floating.
Buy clothing that fits and gives you a waist. The stores Forever 21, UrbanOutfitters, American Eagle, Nordstrom, Hollister, Justice, Wet Seal, Aeropostale and Pacsun are suggested, but you don't have to go by these stores. Remember: makeup usually makes you look polished. Lip gloss and mascara is perfect for everyday wear. You can also wear cheek tints and eye shadow, if you want. Foundation makes your skin look flawless, but too much can look fake. Groom yourself every day. A good grooming routine everyday, is taking a shower, and shaving. Apply body lotion. The last step is perfume. Pick a custom scent for yourself to be your trademark. Look after your hair. Make sure you comb it with a wide toothed comb or a brush, wash it every day or every other day, depending on your hair type, and don't use too many hair products. Straightening your hair every day could cause serious damage, so use a heat protection spray! You can also go for soft curls. Keep in tip-top shape. Don't eat too much dessert. It would be smart to eat low-fat (or fat-free) foods. Exercise daily. However, this doesn't mean starve yourself. You don't have to be stick thin. As long as you're healthy, you're fine!
Take care of your nails as well. Treat yourself to a pedicure/manicure, & make sure to keep from biting your nails, picking at them, etc. People notice your hands more than you think, and jagged nails don't look very nice. Use mostly pastel colors such as pink and baby blue. Especially pink. For girly girls it is a must have color. Purple is a very pretty color as well. However, you can still wear, red, green, black, etc. Just because you're a girly girl doesn't mean you have to wear pink or purple all the time. Have a bright personality, bubbly and happy. Don't giggle all the time, because people will find that really annoying. Instead, make other people laugh, and be really cute. Don't take yourself too seriously. Be sweet and friendly, do not yell too much. Get girly clothes - skirts, cute shirts, accessories, jeans, cute shorts...anything pink is good. Make an effort to look around. When you first start coming out of your "comfort" zone you won't like anything and will keep saying, "No" to everything you see. Go to every store you can. You might get tired of walking around, but just looking is a big step! Go with your friends who have style or with somebody who has any style different than yours! Let them help you, but develop your own style and don't just copy theirs. Wear jeans that fit. Don't wear low cut jeans if you don't feel comfortable, but make sure your jeans fit you. Not tight, not baggy. A belt is okay, but the fit says it all. Try on lots of brands, styles, cuts and sizes. Not every size jean will fit the same depending on the brand. The same goes with shirts. Not tight, not baggy. If your shirt is so tight you can see your bra or you have trouble getting your shirt off of your back, then it's too tight. If your shirt is so big that you can pull it up and see your belly button then it's too big( nothing against belly button shirts)! Things like camisoles are supposed to fit tight. Keep your teeth nice and white. There are several ways to get the perfect dazzling smile. If your teeth are crooked, don't shy away from braces. Just think of them as jewelry for your teeth! For whitening, you can either do it yourself at home with a store-bought product (such as crest white strips) or go to a dentist that also has expertise in the area of cosmetic dentistry to get them professionally whitened.
Girliness is also associated with romance sometimes. Be sure to read/write romance novels and develop a keen interest in poetry. You can also make this your music style by listening to love songs.
Listen to pop music. Hang out with gal pals. Girls love the mall, shopping, and almost anything associated with beauty. Get a group of friends and have a shopping spree, makeovers, a sleepover, or any girl-related activity. Keep a diary. Draw girly stuff in it, like anime, hearts, metoyou, other cartoon characters, flowers and so on.

What is emo?

The term "Emo" is used as counterculture; it is an abreviation of the word "emotional". Emo it's defining not only an attitude, but also a fashion that are coming from emocore (emo music). Emocore is a combination between hardcore and punk music which was very popular in Washington DC in the late 80's. The emo culture continued to develop between '90 and '00, reaching the height of its popularity today.

Understand what emo is. "Emo" has many meanings. Some would say its only a genre of music, categorized by hardcore music with sad, emotional lyrics. Others consider it only a brief way to call someone "emotional". Still, there are those who believe "emo" is a lifesytle and choose to live their lives the "emo" way. Like any style, fashion or culture, the exact definition is up for debate and often varies according to personal expression. The term emo is loosely associated with emotional rock; most emos like underground or indie music. Appreciate emo music. Emo is a rock music genre, usually consisting of emotional lyrics and optional "screamo." Over the years, this music genre was usually seen as underground until recent times, making emo music more popular than ever. This music sometimes consists of lyrics seen by many as "whiny," and "sensitive." Listen to a lot of emo bands, and maybe even consider picking up an instrument, such as a bass or guitar. Also try the violin, if you invest enough time into it emo songs on the violin are incredibly emo-sounding. The drums can also be a very good instrument. You may even want to write your own songs by writing poetry and turning it into songs.
Test yourself. Try listening to emo music. If you end up liking this type of music, and come out wanting to download the songs after you’re done with the album, you’re probably a "true" emo. Getting inner emo is all a matter of finding out of you have it or not. Dress emo. After you have discovered your inner emo, try shopping for a new wardrobe. Emo fashion has roots in both punk and goth. Wear tight jeans, tight shirts with emo band logos on them, studded belts, and an old, black and worn down pair of sneakers. Girls can wear black skirts with striped socks or leggings. Leg warmers are also acceptable. For accessories go to HotTopic and buy black rubber bracelets and any emo-looking necklaces. Thick, black-rimmed glasses are not uncommon for emo guys. Also, stripes and checkers are big in the emo culture. Use emos you see around as inspiration but do not copy, be yourself. Theres always more emo points in thrift shop buys too. Get an emo hairstyle. Dye it black or brown with perhaps some blond or unnatural color streaks, especially in the bangs. If you are a girl, you may possibly want to cut your hair to a very short bob-like hairstyle but keep your bangs long, swept drastically to one side and covering your eye. Or, for those who like long hair, get many choppy layers and highlights. For a guy, you may want to spike up the back side, and pat down on the front side. You could also get your bangs/fringe dyed a lighter color than the rest of your hair.
Get the attitude. A lot of times, emo is associated with being bitter, depressed, insecure and resentful. But at its core, you can be emo because you're sensitive, introspective, thoughtful, and quiet. Don't ever be loud or in anyone's face; focus on your own emotional life.
Remember Emo's are people too! Don't be all glum if everyone makes fun of you! Remember you are still a person.

So you've really set your mind about being a tomboy. Got rid of all your screeching high-pitched girly-girl friends and pretty pink dresses? Well then follow these steps to become a real live tomboy!

Start hanging around boys and wear no girly clothing. They will start to be your friends! You can still be friends with total shopping, lip-gloss loving, hip-swinging girly-girls, just do not become one, or else your friends that are boys will totally turn you off! Start saying words like "dude" and "man" or "awesome"! Try watching stuff more boys would intend to like(e.g. South Park,Family Guy etc.) Make friends with tomboys, they'll introduce you to their friends that are boys and you can do a lot of things that boys can do that girly-girls never could, for instance, play football and boy basketball! Learn to skateboard or go on the scooter! After school you and your tomboy friends and boys that are friends can go to the skate park and have skating contests! Appreciate that you are now one of the "guys" and they will accept you more easily as a friend than with girly-girls who they tease! Observe boys and how they walk. That's really important. They use shoulders, no hands on hips and swinging hips or anything, they use their shoulders and they take huge steps forward. Run a lot! You don't want to be left in the dust when you're in gym and running laps and racing with a friend that's a boy! They might just get a little surprise when a tomboy passes them! Chances are they'll ask you if you watched something like Naruto, Fear Factor, Mar, or anything else like that. It's optional, but you could try it. Don't be afraid to get down and dirty, grass stains on your jeans, scuffed up shoes, that's a real tomboy right there! Wear some boyish clothes clothes like, jeans, (NEVER JEWELED!!) Camouflage pants. Or just baggy pants. For a shirt you may want to buy some new stuff, like some very baggy t-shirts (with boyish designs if you like.)You might want to wear skateboard shoes (if you do be sure to buy from a good quality brand like fallen instead of etnis) (NOT PINK) or converse. Exceptions for pink is a VERY dark pink. Joke around...A lot!

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